Happy June 1st! There is something special about this time of year, don’t you think? I love waking up early with the warm morning light and the stillness of the day before everything gets going. I am so glad that so many of you responded to my last post about de-cluttering and how it’s affecting me. It would not be an exaggeration to say that I’ve already changed many of my habits and my general overview of how I look at my life since I read Clutter Busting merely a week ago. I had a few people ask for specific tips on how to get started, and I will include some at the end of this post. As you start to think about de-cluttering and how to view things in your life, the author includes a quote at the beginning of the book by Ramesh Balsekar that simply asks,
“With all of the things you have in your life, are you any more happy that your dog?”
Intriguing thought, eh?
First, let’s discuss food. Are you signed up for the weekly recipe e-mail from Meatout Mondays? I was inspired by the recipe that was sent this week for Sweet Potato Party Burgers. I didn’t want to fry mine though, so I baked them instead. I also substituted a few of the other ingredients, but kept the overall theme of mixing potato with beans. They were yum!
Here’s my version:
Sweet Potato Burgers – inspired by Healthy Happy Life
4 servings
Ingredients:
1 medium sweet potato, cooked
1 can or 1 1/2 cups of cannellini beans, rinsed and drained
1/4 onion, chopped
1/3 cup garbanzo bean flour
1 tablespoon nutritional yeast
1 tomato, chopped
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon ground cumin
Directions:
Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Remove the sweet potato from its skin and place in a medium bowl (discard the skin). Add the beans, onion, garbanzo bean flour, nutritional yeast, tomato, garlic powder and cumin to the bowl and stir to combine. Use a fork to mash the beans into the mixture. Use your hands to form four patties and place on a lightly sprayed baking sheet. Bake for 45 minutes total, flipping once during cooking.
I served the burgers with a small salad, some baked onions and tahini sauce (tahini mixed with lemon juice):
The sweet potato gives this burger a pronounced sweetness, while the beans provide heft and the flour gives it a bit of a crunchy exterior. I will be making these again.
If you really want to get started clutter-busting your life, then I do obviously suggest you get the book by Brooks Palmer. There are two to choose from that have different focuses, the one I read is from 2009. I will be reading Clutter Busting Your Life from 2012 in a few weeks and will write about it here. If you can’t get your hands on a copy of either of these books, then you can also poke around Brooks’ website, it is here. There is also a short list of how to get started on this page.
First of all, take it one space at a time. I have found that clutter-busting is an exhausting experience, both physically and emotionally. Don’t be surprised if you are brought to tears when you realize you need to let things go. Just remember, the emptiness you may feel will be replaced with freedom and the realization that your life right now is the most important focus you can have.
One question in my mind was “how do I know what to let go?” If you wonder this, just ask yourself “Is this thing serving my life or not?” You can also ask whether or not you would purchase that thing again right now (this helps when evaluating which clothes or CDs to keep). The last way that I found helpful whether to keep something or not was to ask if it either helps create fun or makes my life easier in some way?
Here are some of the “clutter-busting principles” taken from Brooks’ book. He said it was okay if I posted them here. Again, please do read the entire book if you can, he gives a lot more guidance and examples there.
- “Remember that nothing is sacred except you.”
- “If it doesn’t fit anymore, physically or psychologically, let it go.”
- “Take the items that you are going to review out of their space and move them into another room, or outside, so you can get a fresh perspective.”
- “If you hesitate, trying to decide whether something is worthwhile, it’s clutter.”
- “If you find yourself defending the subject because of how much it cost you, it’s clutter.”
- “People can be clutter. Be honest in your relationships. If knowing someone diminishes you, she is clutter. You can speak honestly with her and see if she can change. If not, you can just let her go.”
- “Toss or give away gifts you don’t like.”
- “Most photos are clutter. You were trying to preserve a moment that felt good to you in that moment. But now it’s over. You are collecting ghosts. Ghosts are dull impressions of the original event. Do you want to live among ghosts, or do you want to live in the vibrant living world? Only keep the photos that resonate with this moment.”
- “Feel good about the process of tossing, and avoid the guilt. Advertisers taught you that things are more valuable than you. They were wrong. You are right.”
- “Put nothing in storage. Storage is clutter alimony and a waste of your money.”
- “Your activities can be clutter. I guarantee you that something that you are doing in your life now is clutter. You may be thinking that your value is determined by the activities in your life. That is untrue. You are already valuable! There is no need to prove anything. Those days are over. Ask ‘What makes me happy?’ Whatever is left over, toss.”
- “Toss anything that makes you feel that the past is more special than right now, that gives you the feeling that life will never be as good as it once was. I don’t care how old you are or what you’re doing in your life – you are sitting on a gold mine: you, and the current state of your heart and life. The past is as insignificant as old dishwater. Only keep what reflects your life as significant in this moment.
- “Either give away your clutter to charity, or post it on an online Freecycle site, or put it out on the curb for someone else to find. Having a garage sale spells procrastination for most people, and whatever doesn’t sell usually ends up back in the house. Be strong. Let it go. You are intuitive. Trust your decisions.”
- “Be patient. There is no need to push yourself or try to clutter bust your entire place in one sitting. Approach one area at a time.”
- “Have fun!”
What do you think? Are you inspired as I was? The more I thought about it, the more I realized how much crap, er, stuff I had surrounded myself with as a distraction from life. I’m here now, though, enjoying the moment. Come join me!

















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Wow these burgers look lovely and easy too. I’ve just got a slow cooker so having fun with that at the moment but these would be a great weekend treat, and I can make them baby friendly too without salt and sugar as my baby has never tried veggie burgers.
Thanks for the tips on de-cluttering, yes they are really helpful. I like the idea of not putting off getting rid of your junk. A lot of my junk has been waiting for me to finally get round to selling it individually on ebay but I think I should just put the baby clothes in large bundles and just get it out of the house. I’ve never felt so bogged down with clutter in my life until I had a baby. For such little things they take up a lot of room.
Many thanks.
Hi Katherine! I hope you post more of your slow-cooker recipes, I loooove that appliance! My closest girlfriend just had a baby and I have seen how much stuff she has acquired in the process. It’s amazing! I think it must also be hard to let those things go even when they are no longer needed because there is an emotional attachment to the baby. I’ve been amazingly unemotional when getting rid of most of my clutter, except there have been a few things that really strike a chord with me and have been hard to let go. I just try and remember that the past is past and I’m living for the moment. Have a great weekend!
To be honest I’m not really sure whether I’m going to post any recipes apart from drinks just yet. I want to keep with my theme of ‘green thickies’ so adding green smoothies, green thickies and just ‘thickies’ (fruit smoothies with oats but no greens) . I might add some actual recipes in the future but I think I would keep them green so I kept within my green theme. All my slow cooker recipes that I found on the Internet have been horrible so far, but my new book ‘Quick and easy vegan slow cooking’ just arrived in the post so I’m hoping they will be better.
Yes I’m very unemotional when throwing things out in general apart from photos but they are all on my computer so don’t take up any additional space. There are a few cute baby clothes that I’m definitely keeping though.
Have a great weekend too!
I love this time of year too (even though it is raining in NY today)…. it’s such a great feeling just to know what is to come for the summer!
The burgers look amazing!
I am making a big move in the fall, so I have a lot of clutter busting to do. It’s kind of overwhelming when I look at the big picture….but it definitely helps to focus on one thing and one day at a time!
Hi Lisa! Please tell me you are moving to CA?
That’s one of my favorite strategies for managing big projects: just take it one day at a time! Have a great weekend!!!
I’m not sure yet—I’ll be in Cali for all of September for sure, and I’ll use that time to figure out if I’ll move there or not. There are a lot of factors for me to consider….but I’m definitely leaning toward it (if I feel like I can make a living out there!)…
Oh my gosh, I was just joking! WOW, so cool…I can totally see you as a California girl!
I’m currently reading “The Happiness Project” by Gretchen Rubin, and there is talk of clearing clutter in that book. Once I finish it, I’m going to check out “Clutter Busters” next.
Hi Amanda! I’ve heard this book mentioned before, I will see if it is available at my library. I’m glad someone else is talking about de-cluttering, too.
Have a great weekend!
I had to read a lot of the “clutter-busting principles” twice or more to really take them in. There is a lot going on there – and within each of us – that causes clutter. The photo one really got me…I guess he is right that most photos are not magnificent or inspiring, and that problem is compounded by digital cameras because we can take photos all day long, as many as our memory cards will hold!
My other problem is piles. I have magazines/documents/bills etc, that I know I will need to deal with at some point so I don’t want to get rid of them, but in the meantime they just…well, pile up. I’ve heard before that when you touch an item you should choose right then and there for it to be either filed, donated, recycled or thrown away. Haven’t mastered that by any means!
I already reserved the book at the library. You are inspiring me to get started ASAP. Thanks so much for posting about this topic, Carrie!
Hi Laura! As a former pile-maker myself, I know how you feel. The author of this book points out that the piles represent opportunities so it’s less about what’s actually in the pile and more about the opportunity to do something. The best part is that if you can get rid of the pile, then you lose the guilt about feeling like you’re not doing enough and you have the energy to follow your heart and focus on what is really calling your name. I got rid of a bunch of books last week that I had been “meaning” to read, but never got around to it. Now I couldn’t even tell you which books they were so obviously, they weren’t all that important to me. I picked out a few that I would sit down and read again right now, but the rest of them got donated to the library.
I too subscribe to the Meatless Monday emails! They often have really delicious-looking, simple recipes.
This principle really struck a chord with me:
“Your activities can be clutter. I guarantee you that something that you are doing in your life now is clutter. You may be thinking that your value is determined by the activities in your life. That is untrue. You are already valuable! There is no need to prove anything. Those days are over. Ask ‘What makes me happy?’ Whatever is left over, toss.”
Sometimes I feel like I spread myself out too thin with many different activities that I value because I think they genuinely help others. However, I need to remember to value myself. Right now, I’m really learning how to value, accept, and love myself through my faith in God. I think we sometimes lose ourselves in a lot of doing and forget to just be -be happy, be calm, and be still.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Carrie.
Very cool, Angela, I liked that tip, too. It’s been a very emotional experience for me to realize that I won’t be any more valuable than I am right now, no matter what I achieve or what I do. That principle has allowed me to be much more careful about how I spend my time and really focus on what makes me happy. The cool part is that I am a much better friend, partner and person in general when I am living a life that is full of passion, energy and richness. It’s almost like I have finally figured out how to prioritize the activities of my life. Have a great weekend and best of luck on your journey! Carrie
That is so great to hear, Carrie! I am very happy for you. I still struggle with prioritizing general life activities. I feel like I’m very good at organizing myself and prioritizing my time in terms of my school work and research work, but in the grand scheme of life I find it very hard to prioritize everything else -family, friends, church, personal learning, exercise, meditation- and achieving balance. If you have any insights about prioritizing that you’ve gleaned from the Clutter Busting or your experiences, I’d be interested to hear them if you’re willing to share.
Hi Angela! I would let your passion guide you when prioritizing your activities. Your interest in doing something should be your guide. If there are things that you dread doing or just can’t ever seem to find time to do, then that’s a major clue. It also helped me when I started simplifying activities and realizing I didn’t have to do them perfectly. For instance, I think it’s important for my health to exercise daily. But, if I don’t feel like going to the gym, I’ll take a walk instead. Or, if I don’t have time to cook a meal, I’ll make a salad or a smoothie instead. In other words, I’ve stopped making rules for myself and letting things happen more spontaneously. Do these suggestions help?
Yes, it’s just that sometimes I feel like I have so many passions, interests and activities I want to do. I just wish I had more time to do them all. However, letting go of perfection, rules, and schedules and working more spontaneously would probably help. I’ll have to give that a try. Thanks!
Carrie, I got the book from my library last night (it only took a day for it to arrive!) and read almost the entire book last night! I think I’ve only got about 20 pages left to read. Although I already read past the part about Garage clutter, I ‘conveniently’ left my bookmark on that page and put the book in a place where I know my husband will see it.
My hope is that he’ll open it up and perhaps read that section. We don’t park our cars in the garage because it is full of things he doesn’t think he can part with, yet never uses. Reading the book has inspired me to start looking through my house, especially in my craft room that has lots of unfinished or even unstarted projects that mentally weigh me down. Rather than start them just to get them finished (with no joy in the process), I might donate the supplies to a great store in our area that accepts craft and sewing supplies and sells them to other crafters who want to buy used craft stuff. Anyway…thanks for the book recommendation. It was a good one!
Yay! Thanks for letting me know your thoughts, Gina. Your idea about donating some of your craft supplies is a great one. I have a piano that I bought because I grew up playing the piano and thought it was something I was supposed to do. I realized after reading this book that I don’t enjoy playing the piano so, guess what…I’m getting rid of it! It’s weird once you look at your life and stuff and activities and relationships in a different way and ask if those things are really contributing or taking away from your life. The cool part that I’ve realized is that once I’m getting rid of these unnecessary things, I have so much more time and energy for things that I am really passionate about. It’s like the reward for letting go. Hugs to you, Gina!
Carrie,
Today I decluttered my calendar of events I had on there that I really didn’t want to attend. It was so freeing! Next up, the craft room!
Very cool, Gina! I say go with your gut and only devote energy to things/people/food you are passionate about. I just de-cluttered my closet this afternoon which was quite an experience. Gone are all the clothes that didn’t make me feel like the fabulous person I am!
OMG Carrie. This post is unbelievable. I must start my decluttering now!!
You go Paula!!!
Thanks for sharing that list of tips! I am going to try this recipe this week too. I always end up enjoying the simplicity and deliciousness of your recipes
I’m good about clutter both emotional, personal and physical – I’ve ended quite a few “acquaintance” relationships because it was a constant emotional drain for me. For people clutter, I watch for a few things: if I am constantly giving, but there’s never any giving back from the other person or if someone is an “energy vampire” i.e. you feel zapped by them after spending a short time with them. For house clutter, I mentioned it before, but I really do find that it works – every 6 months I go through the house and get rid of anything I haven’t used in the past 6 months unless it’s a miscellaneous tool. For art and objects, I limit myself to a certain number of pieces and if it ever collects dust, I donate it! The benefits of having less clutter are many – easy to clean, more calming, a lighter feeling and it’s easy to move or adapt to any changes (i.e. a pipe explodes, I don’t have to move tons of stuff to clean up). All power to you Carrie in your clutter busting!
Hi Nadine, thanks so much for your comment. I am really taking to heart your advice about going through the house and getting rid of things that aren’t being used. I’ve noticed that if there is any hesitation, then it’s clutter. My husband is inspired, too. It is a very freeing feeling to get rid of things. More importantly, I’m finding that I’m only buying the essentials and not giving in to advertising that tries to entice me to buy things I don’t need. Your advice about people clutter is important, too. Fortunately, I’m pretty protective with who I spend time with and devote energy to, so I feel pretty good about my circle of friends (including my amazing blog buddies)! Hugs, Carrie
Tried the burgers … they turned out okay but I think I made a misstep when I steamed the sweet potato (for the sake of saving time) instead of baking it. I wonder If I lost some sweetness there. Thanks for the recipe!
Thanks for letting me know, Alex. I know some sweet potatoes can be a lot sweeter than others. How was the texture?
The patties were very easily formed from the mixture. They came out of the oven pretty dense and had the crunchy exterior that you mentioned. Very filling … and that’s coming from a guy who can eat. I am going to try baking the sweet potato next time to see if it made a difference.
Hi Alex, thanks for the update. Let me know how your next version turns out!
Carrie, would you mind sharing any partical kitchen tools/gadgets/appliances you use as your veggies in your salads always look perfect! Thanks
Hi Carrie! I like to chop the lettuce using kitchen scissors and then I dress the leaves and stir it up. I just use a regular kitchen knife to chop the onions and other veggies. Sometimes I use a spiralizer to make spiralized zucchini, radishes and onions which is kind of fun.
Hi Angela! It’s been very hard for me to give up writing to-do lists and obsessing about deadlines, but going back to basics and focusing on my priorities has made it easier for me to manage different activities. I’m also getting better at saying no to things that I don’t really want to do. It’s kind of amazing if you can get used to listening to your heart and letting go of unrealistic expectations for yourself and others. What it has meant to me is that I have a lot more energy to be very, very productive in the things I want to do. I know it sounds obscure, but it can work if you really commit to simplifying your life.
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